Our culture has a discourse of men being 'casanova's or 'player's.
As a result, a lot of women in the dating world are made overly wary and self protective of new men and their motives.
The article linked below cites research that indicates that most men are not that different to women. Even college age men in their sexual prime, indicate that they would prefer similar numbers of sex-partners and value connection and companionship in a relationship.
The 'casanova' discourse negatively affects both...